Testimonials

"I needed this book. I will probably refer to it often. There is no life after divorce if you don't move on. This book contained many eye-openers for me. Hopefully after reading this I won't sabotage my own happiness by staying attached to a man who is unable to make a committment to anyone other than himself. I've probably read at least ten books on survival and recovery from divorce. This one is helping me let my 32-year marriage die." - Dee Dehan, Indianapolis, IN

"I thought I had a life sentence with my X. He was and still is an attorney. He could manipulate me to death before during and after my marriage was over. A friend gave me "Leaving Him Behind." At last, someone knew how to finally end my marriage--years after my divorce!" - New York, NY

"My parents divorced 2 years ago after being married for 30 years. After 2 whole years, my mom was still stagnant, as hurt and as mad as the day she filed for divorce. I've sent her numerous books, groups and web sites and she never got trough any of them. She's really not a reader so I thought she would not read it at all. The day I sent this book to her, she began reading it right there, cover to cover. She said it is the most relavant book she has read that she can actually relate to. That it help put a lot of what she was going through into focus. glad something my mom finally finds useful to help in healing and growing after life with my dad." -Chicago, IL

"I would recommend this book above all others for women who have gone through a divorce and need help moving on. This book is practical and will help you on your journey to start a new life and get beyond the past." -Lori L. Miller, Oregon

"This book helped me put my life back together. It made me a better partner to parent our children. Ultimately, we didn't get the divorce. I believe it was because this book showed me to be concerned for my own life and my children's. He saw the strength I gained and negotiated a way back to each other."

"I separated about 3 months ago, and before reading this book it had been hard for me to move on, I was constantly asking myself the reasons why he left why he didn't follow me, what did I do wrong, who is he with. This book help me to realize how much I put him on a petestal that was not made by him I created all this fantasy around our family. I learned wonderful steps to stop thinking about him, I am rebulding my life and it is now ok for me to cut all responsabilities with him. It is ok for me to start a new life free of guilt and fantasies." -Rosaura Botero, California

"This book was a life saver to a drowning woman. Kahn's whole practice revolves around Ex-Wives, and she astutely has figured out patterns that keep us connected - what a revelation! It felt many times like I had been speaking with her myself. My best take away was to treat everything with him like a business transaction to keep from getting hurt, which is incredibly helpful. I have recommended this to EVERY friend who is going/has gone through a divorce as a head check; it was THAT good. Thanks for great advice well written, easy to read and for helpful diagnostics which really hit the mark. Worth EVERY cent and more! "
-Ft. Lauderdale, FL

"When you break up with someone, this book should be your bible." -Dallas, TX

"This book helped me put my life back together. It made me a better partner to parent our children. Ultimately, we did not get the divorce. I beleive it was because this book showed me to be concerned for my own life and my childrens'. He saw the strength I gained and negotiated a way back to each other." -Detroit, MI

"Best book I ever read...it saved my life" -New Jersey

"Super help!" -E.G. Oldfield

"This is by far the most freeing book I've ever read." -B. Newhous, Atlanta, GA

"Healthier and much wiser" -Ellen, New Jersey

"Wonderful book! Finally" - San Francisco, CA

"I came to see Sandra Kahn when I was 50 and single. I had dated but was never able to maintain a long-term relationship. Sandra helped me to work through my unhealthy issues. I am currently 53 and happily married. Thank you Sandra!"

I had seen two other therapists before I saw Sandra Kahn. Neither one of them was able to help me. Just a waste of time. I was ready to give up. I saw Sandra and my life chenged!!